05-17-2010, 12:04 PM
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While I agree that MOST of the pua concepts out there are complete crap and very dangerous, I strongly disagree with those who say that you cannot learn anything from pickup.
These are the most useful to me:
David X Rules.
Escalation.
Screening mindset when talking to women.
Those are simple and healthy concepts that helped me a lot.
Compare this:
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with this faggotry:
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05-17-2010, 01:04 PM
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If I wanted to write the Blueprint, I could. I have such an amazing writing ability. If you've read my posts, you'll know that I can write many dozens of pages a day, so the book would take me only about a week or so.
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05-17-2010, 01:12 PM
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- Not giving a shit
- Working on yourself (grooming, gym)
- Approaching girls
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05-17-2010, 01:24 PM
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Approach anxiety can be eliminated
Closing mentality
Having standard
Dont put up with girls' bullshits
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05-17-2010, 01:27 PM
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Dont place them on pedastool
You should not need anything from them
Its ok to fail
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05-17-2010, 01:40 PM
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- Escalate
- Having standard / always be screening
- Persistence but not needy
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05-17-2010, 01:46 PM
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PLOWING was good for me and staying UNREACTIVE. I would usually eject on the first sour face I got from the girl. Now I plow for a few minutes and just ignore the sour face. The girl softens 90% of the times, the interaction moves forward for real about 60% of the time.
I have to mention though that staying unreactive doesn't mean me and the girl are bumping heads and I stay stronger and win. It means I as if don't see her resistance at all, I am completely mellow as if she's all smiles. It just melts away their resistance, they get sucked into this 'there's no struggle here' attitude.
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05-17-2010, 03:42 PM
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Just try.
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05-17-2010, 03:44 PM
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The alpha male always wins. I've seen this since high school. Females are unapologetically attracted to the most dominant guy in every social situation.
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05-17-2010, 03:49 PM
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Oh shit sooner or later this thread will turn into routine-rules, state-rules, be-higher-value-rules.
Beats the purpose of this site
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05-17-2010, 03:52 PM
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GTFO.
The alpha male concept is one of the worst.
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05-17-2010, 03:53 PM
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You must be one the former losers in highschool.
Did you eat your lunch in the bathroom too? It's okay guy. Let go of the past.
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05-17-2010, 04:01 PM
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05-17-2010, 04:10 PM
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So you believe in amoging and all that shit?
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05-17-2010, 04:10 PM
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it is the worst...puas like matador are the proof
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05-17-2010, 04:11 PM
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Taking money from suckers.
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05-17-2010, 04:14 PM
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By "AMOG", you mean if any of these pussies tried to shoehorn themselves into any conversation I was with, I would tell them to get lost. If they gave me any lip or didn't leave, I would break their fuckin nose.
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05-17-2010, 04:29 PM
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And that would get you laid?
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05-17-2010, 04:40 PM
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To coin a phrase: cut the shit, time to fuck, etc.
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05-17-2010, 04:46 PM
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Just be yourself.
And take a latin jazz class.
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05-17-2010, 04:52 PM
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Alpha males are insecure, egotistical have low self esteem and hate themselves, others... and life.
Something carlos xuma said that i actually remembered was that theres a huge difference between an alpha male and a alpha man. Alpha man is in control of his emotions, can stay cool calm and confident. Alpha male picks fights with random people and everyone hates him, has boundry issues (thank you doctor paul) and is just plain gay.
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05-17-2010, 05:23 PM
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Dominant yes, cruel/evil (as was suggested in another thread today) no.
As I wrote in that thread the biggest confusion in guys' heads is that being good = submissive and being dominant = being purely evil.
Not so! Girls definitely don't see it this way.
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05-17-2010, 05:27 PM
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Microcalibrations and overt it's on! moment verbal escalation.
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05-17-2010, 05:32 PM
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I think probably "attraction is not a choice" was one of the biggest things for me. Made shit really click, and made me realize that if I'm doing things to attract girls, just figure out what it is and keep doing it.
i.e. before the community I became a raging faggot a few months into a relationship. Which was usually when the relationship would suddenly start to disintegrate and the girl would become uninterested in me. Which I usually took as the time to become an even worse faggot and do outlandish shit to "prove my love." And yeah... Things got even worse.
Attraction is not a choice made me realize that all the things I had done in the beginning were probably right, and in the future to just work on staying the same no matter what.
Other than that, cocky funny has been huge for me. Pretty much the main thing I do is talk shit to girls and never budge.
Peacocking is legit to a certain extent if you don't start wearing light shirts, painting your nails, and wearing fuzzy hats and 7 pairs of goggles.
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05-17-2010, 06:05 PM
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It appears that many of you are still infected with the PUA virus ... your mind hasn't discarded the useless
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05-17-2010, 06:15 PM
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I dunno whos worst the retard, virgin, fucked up in the head, spent all of high school getting picked on, and calls himself "natural" ben whatever teh fuck that means... or you guys for even paying attention
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05-17-2010, 07:02 PM
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In the long run...yes...but I really don't care or do everything in life to make sure it leads to getting laid.
Hey...there's a useful non-community concept
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05-17-2010, 07:05 PM
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1.) Lift weights
2.) Lift weights
3.) Lift more weights
4.) Beat the fuck out of nerds who are talking to hotties (aka puas)
5.) Act like a dick
6.) Be huge
7.) Bully some more nerds
8.) Fuck hos
or
1.) Buy prosti
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05-17-2010, 07:29 PM
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My favourites are:
a) Trust test
b) Powerpuff girls routine
c) 3 IOI's
and
d) Wear white shoes
fuchen ..... crack.
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05-17-2010, 09:37 PM
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Matt Damon is the most USEFUL community concept
Matt Damon
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